The Catalina Wine Mixer, Baby!!

Who doesn’t want to be a part of this?

Date nights are essential to staying together. You must schedule them. Relationships take work and commitment. It’s is not easy to stay together but it is worth it. Sean and I have been married 25 years. That is no easy feat. We have been asked time and again how do you two do it. That is right, each of us must give 100%. We each must do it no matter how busy we are! I give 100% and do not focus on whether he gave anything, but guess what happens when you do not focus on others and what they are doing? You get what you want!

Have a laser focus on fixing you! Want back rubs? Give them over and over without ever expecting one in return, it could be years before you get one, you may never get one, but you must believe, and know that you are blessing the other person. You might one day find out they are the greatest at back rubs and be awed!

One of my favorite books is the 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, by Gary Chapman. The reason is that it gives one a deep insight in how your lover speaks. My love language is physical touch, Sean prefers words of affirmation and acts of service.

You are partly all of them but you will be able to recognize yours right away. Read the book together or get it on tape and listen to it together at your scheduled date night. Take time to discuss what you read and what you feel your language may be.

Consider scheduling one right now—The Catalina Wine Mixer! What a great present to show you are putting in your 100%. Food will be provided by the Amp’d Group’s,  Ten Penny. Look at all the different entrees you can try! The cigar bar provided by Josh Mills of the Smoked Stack. The wine cellar provided by Sigmas.

Hope to see you at this exclusive date night!

Your favorite Concierge Wedding & Event Planner

~Tonya

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